{"id":1711,"date":"2013-05-06T00:36:24","date_gmt":"2013-05-06T08:36:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/libidot.org\/blog\/?p=1711"},"modified":"2013-05-06T00:36:24","modified_gmt":"2013-05-06T08:36:24","slug":"he-never-scream-and-shouts-it-out-loud","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/?p=1711","title":{"rendered":"The man who never screamed during orgasm."},"content":{"rendered":"

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I had been invited by Professor Sufen Song of Sun Yat-Sen University in Guanzhou to give a talk about “Feminine Pornography as Art of Failure” and to hold a workshop with women who are into gay erotic animations and fictions.\u00a0\u00a0The talk garnered unusually rich feedback from students. The workshop was well attended and came alive\u00a0during the second half, where they were asked to\u00a0imagine \u00a0a short story about\u00a0 gay couple in Berlin, an older Belgian professor Moenen (named after\u00a0the devil in the Flemish medieval story Marieke Van Nijmeghen<\/em>)\u00a0who falls in love with the much younger Fritz from Berlin.<\/p>\n

The Guanzhou imagination ran wild as students improvised their versions of this relationship.\u00a0 One student recited\u00a0her story in loud and confident english sentences and was not shy to use the f*** word.\u00a0And several days later that very story got stuck in my mind, so I summarize it here for you:<\/p>\n

Professor Moenen is very old-fashioned and strict, the kind of person who takes care of\u00a0his own\u00a0household. Between the two world wars he visits Berlin. a wet and dark city, and ends up in a bar called Neo, filled with strictly gay men. They are the\u00a0kind who drink their coffees while talking about Plato.\u00a0When Moenen runs into the gorgeous Fritz, he falls for him quickly and does all the things Fritz tells him to do. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Fritz \u00a0fucks\u00a0professor Moenen very hard.\u00a0But Moenen\u00a0does not\u00a0scream or shout it loud. Fritz wants him to say “Fuck me harder!” but he does not shout.\u00a0Fritz soon is tired of the old dog who just follows him around. In the end he dumps old Moenen who also \u00a0ends up being forgotten by history. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It is only when Fritz himself become Professor many years later, that he misses the old men.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Perhaps these young Chinese women like to pester high-brow masculinity\u00a0and deprive it of a voice.\u00a0As\u00a0they explained afterwards, they like to eroticize vulnerability and pain alongside the details of sexual conquest. Let this be a lesson for us middle-aged academics. If at all possible, let’s follow our wildest desires\u00a0and do\u00a0it with\u00a0younger lovers, but let our matured minds also\u00a0really enjoy the sex, “to scream and shout\u00a0it out loud!”<\/p>\n

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I had been invited by Professor Sufen Song of Sun Yat-Sen University in Guanzhou to give a talk about “Feminine Pornography as Art of Failure” and to hold a workshop with women who are into gay erotic animations and fictions.\u00a0\u00a0The talk garnered unusually rich feedback from students. The workshop was well attended and came alive\u00a0during… Continue reading The man who never screamed during orgasm.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,9,13],"tags":[14,18,19,20],"class_list":["post-1711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-research-proceedings","category-sex-art","category-travels","tag-activism","tag-boys-love","tag-china","tag-chinese","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1711\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/libidot.org\/wp\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}